Findom - Financial domination is a very real fetish involving a submissive being
seduced hardly to give money to the Dominant.
Terms like money slave, paypig, moneypig, walletslave, are all part of the play
involved in this type of Domination and submission.
Some men are very turned ON by and seek out findom Mistresses and are
aroused by the act of submitting so completely to a Dominant Female.
Femdom - Female Domination.An erotic phenomenon characterized by an
exchange of power in which she claims authority and dominance
over the submissive male.
The dominate one (Madame, Mistress, Domina, Dominatrix, Goddess)
have complete control over the slave,
such as: -Whipping/Spanking -Riding the slave like a pony -
Put leash and collar on the slave -Facesitting -Humiliate -
Bondage/Blindfold/Gag -Penetrate with strap-on -Make slaves lick boots -
Dress up slave like a maid,animal, etc. -Use slave for sexual favors.
Foot fetishism - Has been defined as a pronounced sexual interest in feet.
Extensions of this fetish include shoes and tickling.
For a foot fetishist, points of attraction include the shape and size of feet and toes
(e.g., long toes, short toes, painted toenails, high arches, soles etc.),
jewelry (e.g., toe rings, anklets, etc.),
treatments (such as massaging, washing partner's feet,
or painting partner's toenails), state of dress
(barefoot, flip flops, sandals, high heels, hosiery, socked feet, etc.),
odor, and/or sensory interaction
(e.g., rubbing the foot, tickling, smelling, kissing, biting, licking,
sucking toes, rubbing genitals on foot, etc.)
Footjob - is a (non-penetrative) sexual practice with the feet that involves one's
feet being rubbed on a partner in order to induce sexual excitement,
stimulation or orgasm. Footjobs are most often performed on males, with
one partner using their feet or toes to stroke or rub the other partner's genital area.
Footjob may also refer to the practice of using one's feet or toes to caress
a female partner's breasts or vulva.
Shoe fetishism - The attribution of attractive sexual qualities to shoes or other
footwear as a matter of sexual preference, psychosexual disorder, or as an
alternative or complement to a relationship with a partner.
Boot fetishism - Is a sexual fetish focused on boots. Boots have become the object of sexual
attraction amounting to fetishism for some people and they have become a
standard accessory in BDSM scenes (where leather, latex and PVC boots are
favoured) and a fashion accessory in music videos.
Roleplay - is as much about what not to say as what TO say. It means to keep your
speech in the context of the setting in which your character (or avatar) exists.
Context can be defined as both time and place.
SPH - Small Penis Humiliaion.A domination fetish where a man is subjected to
comments , gestures about the supposed inadequate size of his penis, because
of such his inability to please a woman, which implies his worthlessness as a man.
Terms frequently used during Small Penis Humiliation include: baby carrot, baby
cock, baby dick, dicklet, maggot dick, Micro Penis, minidick, miniweiner,
needle dick, one inch wonder, peenie, pindick, short stick, small cock, small dick,
small package, Teenie Weenie Peenie, tiny, tiny cock, tiny dick, tiny hidding cock,
tiny little pecker, tiny wee wee...etc ...
JOI - Jerking instructions . This ritual involves true dedication from the male that
listen his female partener.She will instruct him by words or actions , rub the balls
tie them up ,how and when to jerk his penis , denial , edging or rewarding him to cum.
CEI - Cum eating instructions .When a girl/woman gives a guy instructions on how
to eat his own cum.Easy mind manipulation , make him accept the fact he`s a
little cumslut after he being caught wearing slutty clothes and masturbating on
porns , craving that BBC.He will be abused verbally ,he will have to swallow his own
cum or even some other men cum , just to satisfy his woman/wife.
CBT - cock and balls tease/ torture. The pupose to this is to make the pain
enjoyable , the male will tie up balls , use rubber ring, whips , paddle , hot candle
wax ,punch,clothepins , etc .Is a intense mental theraphy .
Sissyfication - in a BDSM context refers to a male submissive that is effeminate
or exhibits feminine behaviors. This is typically done at the request of the
dominant. The submissive is "seduced" into cross-dressing and gender
reassignment. Generally, a sissy refers to a man that does not conform to
traditional gender roles. Sissy is thought of as the male equivalent of tomboy
although this term is thought of as being more offensive.
Chastity - means not having any sexual relations before marriage. It also means
fidelity to husband or wife during marriage.Chastity belts in BDSM may be used
as part of a practice of orgasm control, to prevent the wearer from engaging
principally in sexual intercourse without the permission of the dominant, who
acts as "keyholder"A chastity belt will also prevent other sexual activity such as
masturbation and oral sex involving the wearer's genitals.Chastity belts may be
worn by both men and women as part of BDSM play. A chastity belt may be worn
for the duration of a sex play, for a limited period or as a long-term arrangement.
Cuckold -A man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people
because it brings him pleasure. Cuckolds exist on a spectrum between two
extremes. One on end is the masochistic cuckold who enjoys humiliations,
degradation, and other demeaning activities at the hands of his wife and her
lover. The alpha cuckold lies at the opposite end of the spectrum and does not
enjoy any form of humiliation and often has a direct say in who his wife sleeps with and when.
Blackmail - refers to a situation that arises when a person threatens another
person with some form of punishment if they do not offer some form of
concessions. Blackmail is usually the result of one person somehow obtaining
embarassing information about another and threatening to disclose it unless
some form of payment (money or favors) is offered. The term originates from
the words "black" and "mail", which referred to the dark or threatening nature of the
letters (mail) that were received detailing the threat. Although blackmail
usually entails paying a price to obtain another person's silence about an
embarassing situation, it need not involve an actual event before it can be
conducted. The threat of embarassing someone for a contrived event can be
enough to conduct blackmail effectively, provided the threat is believable..
Fat fetishism is a sexual attraction directed towards overweight or obese people due primarily to their weight and size.
A variety of fat fetishism is feed(er)ism or gaining, where sexual gratification is obtained not from the fat itself but from the process of gaining, or helping others gain, body fat . Fat fetishism also incorporates stuffing and padding , whereas the focus of arousal is on the sensations and properties of a real or simulated gain.
Gainers and feedees are people who enjoy the fantasy or reality of gaining weight themselves. Encouragers and feeders enjoy the fantasy of helping someone else gain weight .
ABDL - This is typically a lifestyle choice (A fetish for some) where a adult acts like a baby for comfort reasons. Many people use this to deal with stress, traumatic life events, or just because this is how they chose to live their life. People who are into this might wear adult diapers, use pacifiers , and other various objects that one might use for a child or toddler.
This does not mean that they are attracted to childrens!
Erotic hypnosis - is the practice of hypnosis for sexual purposes, outside of a therapeutic context. Some erotic hypnosis is practiced in the context of BDSM relationships and communities.
In addition, for some people hypnosis is inherently erotic, making it an example of a sexual fetish or paraphilia.
Erotic hypnosis can involve hypnotic suggestions intended to increase arousal,to create or enhance sexual pleasure, in some cases involving "hands-free orgasms" , to produce new sensations, to freeze partners in place or simulate bondage,or to enhance roleplay, with popular types of hypnotic roleplay including animal transformations,robot play and doll play.
Erotic hypnosis may be done face-to-face, over video conferencing or text chat, or through pre-recorded audio files or videos.
Sessions may involve suggestions that are to take effect during trance or afterwards, in the form of post-hypnotic suggestions, some of which might be triggered by an action or situation.
Forced intoxication - is a type of play in which a domme forces a sub to drink alcohol and/or partake in a drug activity. Personally, I love forced intoxication because it combines physical and psychological control. It goes much deeper than the act of drinking alcohol or using drugs. Forced intox becomes a manipulation of the mind.
In a forced intoxication session, a domme will typically tease and degrade the sub while commanding him or her to drink and/or use a drug. When the domme deems the sub is intoxicated enough, she will usually begin “taking advantage” of the sub. This can include a variety of scenarios, such as restraining and sexually dominating the sub or forcing the sub to perform humiliating tasks, which are sometimes filmed for blackmail purposes.
Forced intoxication is a REAL kink that is practiced consensually for arousal purposes
The arousal factor for subs in forced intoxication comes from the fact that they are giving up all control to their dominant. The sub enjoys obeying the domme’s orders and anticipating what the domme will make him or her do next. Forced intox play allows subs to lower their inhibitions and become more willing and eager to obey and please their domme!
Erotic humiliation - is consensual psychological humiliation performed in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal. This can be for either the person(s) being humiliated and demeaned or the person(s) humiliating, or both. It is sometimes performed before spectators, including pornography and webcam viewers. It may be part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay, or accompanied by the sexual stimulation of the genitals (or other erotic region) of one or both parties in the activity.
Humiliation is a subjective issue and is dependent on context. It does not need to be sexual in nature; as with many other sexual activities, it is the feelings that are obtained from the experience that are desired, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. Usually there is a feeling of submission for the person being humiliated and dominance for the person implementing the humiliation.
Gooning - is a state achieved after a prolonged edging session, where a man becomes completely focused and entranced by the sensation coming from his erect penis. Since this state can only be achieved after edging (the sexual practice of bringing someone to a point of orgasm but postponing it over space and time in order to create heightened arousal), the man's erection is incredibly intense while gooning. Any touch or caress leads to an explosive sensation of elation. As the man continues edging, he continues feeling extreme pleasure as his mind and body become one.
Mastering and achieving the state of gooning requires the ability to prolong sexual arousal, learning how to edge properly and most of all, listening to one's sexual responses. Knowledge of one's own masturbation and self-pleasure is essential.